Takeaway: Porn may be over-the-top, but anal pleasure is the real deal. Whether you love it, hate it, or haven't yet tried it, August is Anal Sex Month. Anal sex provides a completely different sensation than vaginal play and it's something that can be very pleasurable — if done correctly. Anne Hodder , ACS, a multi-certified sex and relationships educator, says a successful anal experience is most often the result of communication, relaxation, preparation, lubrication and at least initially gentle stimulation. Lube, by the way, is essential for anal sex. A lot of people lean toward silicone-based lubes here because they tend to last longer, but water or oil-based can work as well - just make sure that what you choose plays well with the material of the toy or condoms you may be incorporating into your play. Now that we have that out of the way, on to some tips to make anal play the pleasurable experience you're probably looking for. I talked with three porn stars to get their take on how to best approach anal sex. The easiest and most common way to do this is with a disposable enema like you can buy at any drugstore.
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And all your other most pressing questions for adult film legend Tasha Reign. Every Friday then, Tasha will select a few of these questions and grace us with her insight, advice and expert wisdom in the hopes that she can help you fuck long and prosper. Do porn stars actually enjoy sex on set, or are they just pretending? So, the short answer to this complex question is that yes, sometimes we fake it. Do women just do anal as a special favor to men? Is there any way to make it hurt less? Great question! But let me be clear — there are ways to make anal more enjoyable for everyone involved. First things first, discuss whether or not your partner even wants to have anal sex to begin with. While there are plenty of people of all genders who love it as much as I do, some folks will comply with it just to please their partners.
Porn stars: We trip over our own feet just like the rest of you! Because hey, how many secrets can you reasonably expect to keep when you're naked on the Internet? Problem is, many sites take care to cover up any product labels on props, which means all their liquid dispenser bottles are wrapped in tape. Identically wrapped in tape. I can't tell you how many times I've reached for what I thought was a bottle of Swiss Navy, only to have a PA dive in front of the camera to save me from squirting hand sanitizer on my crotch. Many performers are not so fortunate, and trust me, there are no moisturizing benefits to Purell. Which basically means you're having oral sex with someone before greeting them verbally. For men, this is the worst, as they have to keep erections up despite the constant stopping-and-starting.
Anal requires a lot of preparation, including but not limited to enemas, pre-fingering and eating a particular diet or skipping meals that day. Pretty much any time there is a cut in the editing from one angle to another. Advertising and sponsorship are much bigger routes of income these days.